Eros: Relationship structure
Relationship Design Canvas
Monogamy, open, poly. Describe what each would look like if you were living in it.
Where you are right now
Before you compare hypotheticals, name your actual starting point: single, dating, already in a specific structure, whatever it is. Everything below gets measured against this.
For each structure you're curious about or currently navigating, write whatever comes up when you imagine living in it. What appeals to you, what worries you, what you'd need, what you're unsure about.
There's no required shape and you don't need to fill in all three. Then compare what you've written and notice which one you found yourself relaxing into.
Which one did you notice yourself relaxing into as you wrote it?
Not necessarily the one you'd defend in an argument, but the one that felt easiest to write, or that your body settled into.
What relationship structures are you curious about?
Are you able to explore these structures in your current relationship?
Anything else you noticed?
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